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About The Blog
I unexpectedly became a widow at 33. My husband and I spent much of our 10 years together travelling the world. This blog was originally for family and friends to follow our infrequent adventures in globe-trotting. But with the recent turn of events, it has become a way to share my walk through this process. There are moments of grief, but also moments of light. Eventually, I will write the rest of our travel stories, and someday I will travel again myself. But for now, it is a form of therapy, and a way to maybe help others put their feelings into words. Thank you for following. ~Katie
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Survivor’s Guilt
On April 11, 2016, Chris went in for minor hip surgery. Their goal was to remove an acetabular impingement (pronounced ass-tab-you-lar im-pinj-mint) from his hip joint. After years and years of chronic back pain and pain management and chiropractors and … Continue reading
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Happy Birthday, Chris
I had my first dream about Chris a few nights ago. I dreamed he was actually alive. He just walked up to me, on a boat dock. We discussed what had happened so far, while he was gone, and what … Continue reading
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Control
I believe in being proactive. I believe in momentum. I believe in checking things off “to do” lists. I believe in making things happen through perseverance and grit. I believe in the power of impatience. I believe that if opportunity … Continue reading
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38 Lessons in 34 Years
I’ll admit this is a little pretentious of me. Typically, people don’t start laying out their life lessons until they’re at least getting AARP letters. But it would also be a little ignorant of me to just ignore what I … Continue reading
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My Theory of Why
To be upfront, I hate theories. I think that’s why I perceive my college education with such loathing. Because college was about theory. And theory is not application. A theory is just an idea that maybe something is true, if this, this, … Continue reading
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The Girl Code
Ladies, I feel the need to clarify some things. There’s so few of us on this particular path. And as I’m apparently the leader on it (yes, I cringed just typing that), I think I need to be explicit on … Continue reading
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Dear Chris
Dear Chris, I imagine you’ve spent your first 8 months in heaven a little differently than I’ve spent my time here on Earth. You and your Opa and your brother, Adam, have probably spent most of the time catching up, laughing … Continue reading
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How to Not Ruin the Holidays
Alright, I know, that title is a little harsh. Forgive me. But bare with me and see if maybe you don’t agree on a few of my points… A lot of people have commented recently on how hard they know … Continue reading
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There is a Darkness
I hate being sad. Really and truly loathe it. I despise being around sad people. My empathy is zilch. When I see others who are sad or struggling, I politely tell them I’ll pray for them, maybe give them a … Continue reading
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The Girl Who Stood Back Up
Because this isn’t the unfortunate ending to my perfect fairy tale, but rather an unanticipated Part 2. Continue reading
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