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“What If I’m Supposed to Go to Africa?”

I love when friends bring up memories of Chris.  There are things that stick with others, but haven’t stuck with me.  I think sometimes that’s God talking.  Through our conversations.  Reminding us of the moments that have been misplaced.  The … Continue reading

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The Moment That Breaks You

I prepped and cooked dinner for the first time since I lost Chris.  That was 5 months ago, and this is the first time since that I’ve actually made my own dinner.  And I realized there were things about Chris I … Continue reading

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The Hardest to Say, But Easiest to Write

I knew the day after Chris died that I needed to be a part of his eulogy. I was one of five that spoke, including his mother, two of his friends, and his mentor. Continue reading

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The Good Stuff

Family:  sometimes we don’t appreciate them until we really need them.  And then, we can’t figure out what we did without them.  And if you have never met my family, well, you have certainly missed out on quite the crew. … Continue reading

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Wifin’ Ain’t Easy

There’s this “Spouse’s Challenge” that’s been trending on Facebook.  You share pictures of you and your spouse, then challenge someone else to do it.  And I certainly don’t want to belittle the trend.  It’s a cute idea: a way to … Continue reading

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Why I Chose to See a Grief Counselor

There are 4 reasons. And this is just too big to not talk about. Continue reading

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Coping: Katie Style

We all have our own little coping mechanisms for getting through life’s rough patches.  But this is a little more than a “rough patch”.  And what I’ve found over the last few months is what I need one day might … Continue reading

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Walk Like a Man: The Chris Wall Way

It still feels like a punch to the gut.  Because Chris was one of the good ones.  And if we lost one of the good ones, that means any of us could go.  So we’re all now sitting here, questioning … Continue reading

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Broken & Thankful

Yes, I too am already concerned about the title of this post.  Seriously, Katie?  You’re going to go there?  Yes, I am.  Because pulling myself further down into a pit of despair sounds like a worse idea than the alternative … Continue reading

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Letting Go of Answers

I have a lot of questions for God.  More than I ever thought I would.  I am not angry at Him for the path I am on, nor for Chris no longer being a part of our lives.  Nor for … Continue reading

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