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When You Don’t Know What to Say

Can I just be honest?  Just really, truly, brutally honest? Besides the revolting pain of losing Chris, the thing that hurts almost as much is being the girl you’re afraid to talk to.  Being perceived by my situation, rather than … Continue reading

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For Those of Us Struggling

I’m heading down the road, with my mind focused on the day ahead, feeling pretty good.  Then, BAM!  A song comes on that catches me off-guard.  And feelings roll in.  Then the waterfall of tears follows.  Sometimes they’re happy, sometimes … Continue reading

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Destination Unknown

The following I drafted a few weeks before our 10-year anniversary trip. Nope, not a clue.  All I know is we’re leaving Friday morning. I’ve joked with Chris for years about surprising me with a trip: not telling me where … Continue reading

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“How Are You Okay?”

I get this one a lot too.  “How are you okay?” or  “How are you even standing?”.  The problem is that we have this idea in our heads of what this should look like.  And I think for some, I just … Continue reading

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Friends in Low Places

Heads up:  Garth isn’t going to be happy with where this is going. When I say there is an army surrounding me, I mean an army.  Hundreds upon hundreds.  College friends, high school friends, neighbors, his work friends, my work … Continue reading

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“I Can’t Even Imagine”

“I can’t even imagine what you’re going through.” Besides “my thoughts and prayers are with you”, this is the second most common reaction to the news of my 34-year-old husband’s unexpected death.  Both are comments I’ve said myself, many times, … Continue reading

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And It Begins…

A short bio on why this blog started.
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